Anonymous: you post too many selfies. unfollowed.

Hey I respect that, that’s cool :) But I’m not going to stop posting selfies, I like to post selfies. When I post selfies it’s a sign that I’m feeling pretty good about myself, and I want to share that feeling. I’m a girl who has had a lot of confidence issues growing up, so when I have moments when I like the way I look, or even just a small piece of myself, you can damn well be sure I’m guna snap a picture of it so that I look back on it later and think “I like that.” I’m totally pro-selfie. If it’s not your thing, that’s totally cool bud, all the best to you. Sorry if I clogged up your dash, but this is my blog and I’l run it how I like, and use it to help me sort through my confidence issues. I’m learning to love myself. That includes posting my selfies. Have a beautiful evening. :) x 

Baby I’m just guna shake, shake, shake, shake, shake. Shake it off. Shake it off .

I’m on holiday until 29th September, this is queued.
Things I wish I could tell my 16 year old self
  • You’re beautiful. I know you don’t think it now, but one day you’re going to realize literally no one else in the entire world cares about those things that you think are flaws. No one. And if someone doesn’t find you attractive, that doesn’t mean that you’re unattractive- it just means that THEY don’t find you attractive. Don’t feel resentful for that boy liking a different girl. Don’t take it out on yourself. 
  • Don’t. Take. It. Out. On. Yourself. Seriously, put down your blades darling, they’re not going to fix anything. 
  • One day a boy is going to kiss your scars and then he’s going to break your heart. That’s ok. That’s life. 
  • Don’t let yourself become emotionally invested in your crushes. He’s just another guy, there are so many out there. He’s not the only boy that’s ever going to make you smile. 
  • Don’t base your happiness around boys. Don’t let it get to you if he doesn’t text you back, and don’t let it overwhelm you if he does. 
  • You don’t NEED to always have a crush on someone. Don’t believe you are worth nothing for being alone. 
  • Don’t
  • Believe
  • You
  • Are
  • Worth
  • Nothing
  • For
  • Being
  • Alone
  • Boys are just boys. Don’t feel like you have to do something you don’t want to do to impress them. Take time to dance by yourself. Take time to love yourself. Take time to do your hair in the morning and put on your favorite lipstick because you want to wear it, not because you’re imagining what it would look like pressed against his cheek. 
  • Boy’s are not trophies. Don’t try and win one. 
"25 things i wish i realized while i was still in highschool"
  1. That zit on your cheek literally does not matter
  2. Skipping class one time will not ruin your entire life
  3. The boy you’re trying so hard to impress will mean nothing to you in a year
  4. Bring coffee to school and ignore people who make fun of it
  5. Bring a snack, too. Don’t care if people hear you eating in class.
  6. Being popular isn’t and will never be something that seriously defines who you are
  7. Appreciate your teachers
  8. Doing/not doing drugs doesn’t make you cooler than anyone else.
  9. Neither does drinking
  10. Talk to the kid sitting alone; even though it may not change your life it could drastically change theirs
  11. Participate in school events
  12. Wear sweatpants everyday
  13. Or wear a dress everyday
  14. Wear whatever makes you comfortable
  15. Nobody will laugh at you if you sit alone at your lunch table for five minutes
  16. Utilize the library
  17. Don’t wait 20 minutes to text someone back just to seem cool
  18. Tell your friends how much you love them
  19. Cherish your free textbooks… seriously
  20. Help confused freshmen, be nice to them. Remember how much you would have appreciated it a couple years ago
  21. Compliment the other girls in the bathroom
  22. That fight you had with your mom really isn’t that big of a deal
  23. It’s okay to cry
  24. Don’t let your desire for a romantic relationship stop you from forming platonic relationships
  25. Remember that life does go on

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Wear whatever the fuck you want to.
You are a fucking goddess. (ʃƪ ˘ ³˘)